Men come in all shapes and sizes â€“ and so do their members. And, no matter what the adult film industry may tell us, in most cases male organ size really doesnâ€™t matter in terms of sensual fulfillment. (Male organ care and skill, of course, does matter.) But just because male organ size is not the be-all and end-all when it comes to coupling does not mean that guys with a larger male organ size donâ€™t need some special tips. So for any men with a thicker-than-typical member, the following may prove helpful.
So what constitutes a â€œwideâ€ member? Thatâ€™s up for some debate, but a recent study found that the average circumference of a tumescent member was about four and a half inches. So anything, say, five inches or greater would probably qualify as a wide male organ size.
So for those five inches and up, it pays to keep the following in mind:
â€¢A wide member may cause concern at first. When most people think of a big male organ size, they imagine a very long manhood. When a woman sees a very thick manhood, she may be a little taken aback, as in many ways it is easier for a female organ to accommodate a long member than a thick member. With girth, thereâ€™s need for the female organ to stretch open more. In reality, most female organs can accommodate a manhood of almost any width â€“ but a guy of major width may need to be prepared for a little hesitation on the part of a new partner.
â€¢Lubricant is your best friend. Sufficient lubrication is key to most successful sensual encounters, but it is especially important when oneâ€™s male organ size is extra-wide. While the bodies in play while create their own natural lubricant, in many cases that simply is not enough. Donâ€™t be afraid to apply lots of lubricant to get started â€“ and be prepared to re-apply if the encounter goes on for a lengthy period of time.
â€¢Do not skimp on foreplay. While lubrication is important, so is foreplay. Gently rubbing and stroking oneâ€™s partner and engaging in cuddling and kissing is always a good idea, but never moreso than when width is a factor. For a new partner, this can also help assure her that the man with the girth will be a gentle and respectful lover and ease anxieties about being roughly handled by the substantial package between the legs.
â€¢Seek out a good-fitting latex barrier. Many men of a larger male organ size have difficulty finding latex barriers that fit appropriately. Guys who have not already found the best fit for themselves should buy a range of XL or XXL latex barriers and try them on. Itâ€™s important to find the â€œGoldilocksâ€ fit â€“ not too loose, not too tight, as well as not too long or too short.
â€¢Experiment with positions. Every couple has their own needs and preferences when it comes to positions, but many widely-endowed men find that letting the woman be in charge of choosing positions can be helpful. That way she can control the angle and rate of penetration. One tip: many women find that positions in which their legs are spread wide make it easier to accommodate greater girth.
Whatever oneâ€™s male organ size, whether wide or thin, long or short, a guy needs to pay strict attention to his manhood care. Regular application of a superior male organ health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can help. The best cremes should include a wide range of vitamins â€“ A, B5, C, D and E, for example â€“ which, being applied topically to the member, can more directly provide their benefits. Men should also make sure that the selected crÃ¨me includes L-arginine, an amino acid which plays a key role in the creation of nitric oxide â€“ and therefore helps ensure that male organ blood vessels are receptive to an increased blood flow when needed.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving member sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy manhood. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.