From far too early an age, guys spend an inordinate amount of time worrying about whether they have a small member and what they can do about it if they donâ€™t, in fact, measure up to what is supposedly expected of them. Itâ€™s no secret that men in our culture place far too much emphasize on manhood size (sometimes at the expense of the far more important male organ health). This may come as a surprise to some, but there are some dudes who relish having a small manhood â€“ not as a sign of simple acceptance but as a means of sensual humiliation. Yes, small member humiliation is a legitimate fixation.
And itâ€™s one that doesnâ€™t have to apply to a guy with a legitimately small member, either.
An interesting fixation
A sensual fixation is a sensual attraction to objects or body parts which are not typically associated with sensual attraction. For example, some people are intensely excited by feet; sometimes just the sight of a foot can cause them to become sensually engaged.
With small member humiliation, the fixation is not with the member itself so much as with the humiliation attached to having a small organ. So, while it certainly is possible for a man to be sensually charged at just the sight of his own small member, it is more common for a man to obtain the excitement when someone else is commenting on the inadequate size of his organ.
(For the record, a woman can also have a small member fixation, where she genuinely does find a small manhood more sensually stimulating than a larger one.)
And to repeat, a man does not have to have small equipment to enjoy small member humiliation; he simply has to experience his own manhood as inadequate or be told that his manhood is inadequate. Often a man with this fixation may have a member of perfectly average size â€“ or in some cases, a much above-average size. But being told he has a small member and being mocked for not having a monstrously-sized one gets his motor revving.
Men or women?
If a person enjoys small member humiliation, does that mean he likes it when a person of either gender humiliates him? Thatâ€™s not easy to say, as it really depends upon the individual. But many men do enjoy having the size of their equipment mocked by either gender.
Surprisingly, men who are into this kind of humiliation are not necessarily quiet, shy guys. They often are large, muscular men who seem at first meeting to exude confidence.
And, of course, different men enjoy different kinds of humiliation. Since small member humiliation typically involves role playing of some kind, itâ€™s important that both participants agree on how far they are to go and they should stop if either party feels uncomfortable with the game.
When engaged in between two people who care for each other, a fixation like this one can be used to help them learn more about each other and be accepting of one another. But both parties need to be â€œon boardâ€ with it.
Whether into small member humiliation, large member adoration or moderate manhood pleasuring, a guy should keep his organ in prime health. Daily application of an excellent male organ health crÃ¨me (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) is a must. Locate a crÃ¨me that includes a wide range of vitamins, such as A, B5, C, D and E to help keep the male organ healthy. Itâ€™s a bonus if the crÃ¨me also contains alpha lipoic acid, a powerful antioxidant that helps strengthen manhood skin.
Visit http://www.menshealthfirst.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving manhood sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.