For any man wanting to learn more about how to attract women, understanding the qualities a woman looks for in a long-term partner is key. Whether or not you’re in it for a long time or just a good time, for women the initial attraction is all about intuition and gauging emotional intelligence. Yes, you better believe it.
Recent research from Sheffield University describes the depth of our human connection in terms of our intrinsic attraction to one another.
The Interbrain
Professor Digby Tantam of Sheffield University has identified what he calls the interbrain: a channel of human connection that is separate to facial expression, body language and verbal communication. He believes the interbrain enables us to tune in to others’ emotions, through ‘secret’ signals we don’t even know we’re sending. These signals are able to convey our inner state in a way no other kind of communication can. Tantam believes that chemical changes in the body can cause the emission of molecules that denote a certain mood or state that isn’t discernible through verbal or visual means. It certainly goes some way to explain the instant feeling of “chemistry†between two people or the notion of love at first sight.
Tuning in to Intuition
It’s clear that for men who want to learn the deepest secrets of how to attract women, tuning into this kind of intuition (and simply being aware of its existence) could be extremely helpful. Doctor Tantam believes it’s at work behind the scenes in every aspect of our human relationships, and can be identified in those “gut feelings†we sometimes have about a person’s attraction – even if, at the same time, that person is pushing away from us.
Connection through OM
One very tangible way of developing this kind of connection is through the partnered practice of OM. By harnessing the power of meditation and our most deeply felt human experience, both partners can discover deep intimacy – not through facial or verbal expressions, but simply through touch, mindfulness and emotional energy.
If a man truly wants to know how to attract women, OM can be one of the most powerful and insightful experiences of his life. Developing the ability to “read†and tap into a partner’s needs by practicing mindfulness oneself can not only forge the most intimate of connections but, beyond that, it can lead to a state of enlightenment that permeates every corner of the practitioner’s life.
While Doctor Tamar’s report supports the belief that this instinct or intuition lies within us all, it also suggests that it can be blocked in some people (those with autism, for example), but that it can also be developed.
Through practices like OM, when a man is open to the idea of tuning in to his own intuition and that of a woman, he opens himself up to the possibilities of an entirely new and elevated relationship dynamic. What could be more attractive to a woman than that kind of potential?
Juliette Karaman-van Schaardenburg is a director at TurnOn Britain and a qualified OneTaste coach and Orgasmic Meditation trainer. As well as working with couples, she works with men to teach them how to attract women and make sex better by tuning into their body and intuition.
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