Big Male Organ Problems: Too Much of a Good Thing?

When talking about male organ size problems, most people assume that the issue is that the manhood in question is on the small side. As a matter of fact, most men would refuse to believe that someone with a big male organ size could actually have a problem. But the truth is that, while there can be some advantages to having a big member, there can also be potential disadvantages. When by “big” we mean “long,” one potential issue can be depth of penetration. When there’s an overflow of length, it can in some instances cause pain to the partner receiving the penetration.

What is long?
Any serious discussion of male organ size has to start with a definition of what is meant by normal male organ size. For years, six inches was considered the average manhood length. But in recent years, various surveys have indicated that that six inches may have been a little over-optimistic.

Understanding that male organ size in this instance is dealing with the member in a tumescent state (rather than in a flaccid one), a pretty reliable 2015 survey (encompassing more than 15,000 members around the world) found that instead of six inches, the average male member really measures only 5.16 inches. (Girth, for what is worth, averages out at 4.6 inches.)

Technically, anything over 5.16 inches long could be considered “big” therefore. Traditionally, however, when a man has been said to have a big manhood, it usually has referred to one of 7” or more in length. (By one survey, as many as 9% of men would fall into that CatID – although less than 1% would have a male organ size measuring 8” or more.)

The female organ
What about women? When not excited, the length usually three to four inches; this can expand, however, during sensual excitement. But a man with a very long member may still not be able to fit all of his manhood into some female organs. And when this is the case, penetration can cause pain to the female partner.

What to do
Ideally, a man with a big male organ size will be aware of this potential problem and try to avoid thrusting too deeply. But in the throes of passion, this may not always be possible. But there are a few strategies that can be employed to prevent too-deep penetration in these cases.

•Use a ring. Sometimes wearing a simple pen is ring may be enough to avoid painful penetration. Although the ring is usually only a half-inch or so, that may be enough to keep the manhood from over-reaching. If not, jelly rings or donuts – which are thicker and are used on manhood pump cylinder openings – may do the trick.

•Find a good position. Experiment with different positions until one is found which allows the woman control over depth of penetration. For most people, this means something other than missionary or other man-on-top positions. For many couples, positions which enable them to be side-by-side, rather than on top/on bottom, can allow for greater control. The same is often true for woman-on-top positions like the cowgirl.

•Keep the pants on. Sometimes if the male stays dressed and lets the member protrude from the fly, it creates sufficient distance to help avoid painful penetration. However, there then is the problem of fabric (and zippers) rubbing against the female organ, which can be uncomfortable.

Men with any male organ size want to make sure that they are aware of any painful penetration problems and take steps to prevent them. They also need to make sure their equipment looks its best upon presentation, which requires using a superior male organ health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The best cremes will include vitamin C, which is an important component of collagen, a tissue in the body that gives skin its tone and elasticity and is vital for tumescence. The crème should also include a powerful antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid, which helps protect member skin and tissue from damage due to oxidative stress.

Visit for additional information on most common manhood health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy member. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous websites.